Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to the youngest-looking-person-here,
祝你早日成佛！
Friday, October 31, 2008
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Summary of meeting 22nd October
Firstly: PHOTOS PLEASE! Those people who brought cameras on that day! If not then this place will be only about BS work stuff, and look so not-fun.
The original theme was supposed to be TEAM-BUILDING.
But we have selected one specific skill to hone in on: FACILITATION skills. The rest of the programme will be built around this.
Rough timetable:
9.00am-9.30am----Ice-breaker (Sea Ming/ Isen)
9.30am-10.00am---Video and Intro (Hidayat/ Robby)
10.00am-10.45am--Self-awareness: Personality Test (Isen/ Albert)
10.45am-11.00am--Songs and Dance I (Sea Ming /Johnathern)
11.00am-12.30pm--Workshop I: the Mafia game (Kwek)
12.30pm-1.30pm---Lunch (and sharing Past Camp Experience)
1.30pm-2.00pm----Songs and Dance II (Sea Ming /Johnathern)
2.00pm-3.30pm----Workshop II: Factilitation for Camps (Cindy)
3.30pm-5.00pm----Background of Camp and Dharma QnA (All invited)
So the different facilitators for the different segments can get together to come up with a (concrete) summary of what they will do for each segment and post it on the blog before the next meeting which is 7 Nov (Friday) evening.
ISEN is hereby ARROWED to arrange amongst us for the time and place of the next meeting!! Yeah!! Taiji!!
The original theme was supposed to be TEAM-BUILDING.
But we have selected one specific skill to hone in on: FACILITATION skills. The rest of the programme will be built around this.
Rough timetable:
9.00am-9.30am----Ice-breaker (Sea Ming/ Isen)
9.30am-10.00am---Video and Intro (Hidayat/ Robby)
10.00am-10.45am--Self-awareness: Personality Test (Isen/ Albert)
10.45am-11.00am--Songs and Dance I (Sea Ming /Johnathern)
11.00am-12.30pm--Workshop I: the Mafia game (Kwek)
12.30pm-1.30pm---Lunch (and sharing Past Camp Experience)
1.30pm-2.00pm----Songs and Dance II (Sea Ming /Johnathern)
2.00pm-3.30pm----Workshop II: Factilitation for Camps (Cindy)
3.30pm-5.00pm----Background of Camp and Dharma QnA (All invited)
So the different facilitators for the different segments can get together to come up with a (concrete) summary of what they will do for each segment and post it on the blog before the next meeting which is 7 Nov (Friday) evening.
ISEN is hereby ARROWED to arrange amongst us for the time and place of the next meeting!! Yeah!! Taiji!!
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
GL Workshop for Dharma Camp 2008
Heyo people
I've contacted four of you (Isen, Seaming, Cindy, Albert) about this workshop thing.
Basically, it's to put together a workshop custom-made to train Group Leaders for Dharma Camps.
I've discussed with some of you and the 30th MC, and so the theme is TEAM BUILDING.
We have to fix one date (in November after Seaming hands in here thesis?? When you finish?) to meet up to settle the details and allocation. Jacinta may join us, but it's kinda near the exams then. Let's fix the date here in this blog.
Also, we can bounce ideas around in the days leading to the meeting. Use the comments section to brainstorm on what we can do.
Firstly, I was thinking that the focus of this half-day workshop should be:
10% Theoretical knowledge on team-building. A mini-lecture on group dynamics etc.
30% Practical hands-on activities learning about team building. Possibly some game or something teaching about communication or making use of people's strengths?
30% Self-discovery. The only thing I seem to remember from those GL workshops were those personality tests. In discovering their own natural roles in groups, they may be more sensitive in identifying character types in their Camp Groups.
30% Bonding among the Group Leaders themselves so that they have coordination and cohesiveness to leade the camp. This can be through games, or teaching our BS songs with actions, etc.
Hope to see an active discussion kekekekke...
I've contacted four of you (Isen, Seaming, Cindy, Albert) about this workshop thing.
Basically, it's to put together a workshop custom-made to train Group Leaders for Dharma Camps.
I've discussed with some of you and the 30th MC, and so the theme is TEAM BUILDING.
We have to fix one date (in November after Seaming hands in here thesis?? When you finish?) to meet up to settle the details and allocation. Jacinta may join us, but it's kinda near the exams then. Let's fix the date here in this blog.
Also, we can bounce ideas around in the days leading to the meeting. Use the comments section to brainstorm on what we can do.
Firstly, I was thinking that the focus of this half-day workshop should be:
10% Theoretical knowledge on team-building. A mini-lecture on group dynamics etc.
30% Practical hands-on activities learning about team building. Possibly some game or something teaching about communication or making use of people's strengths?
30% Self-discovery. The only thing I seem to remember from those GL workshops were those personality tests. In discovering their own natural roles in groups, they may be more sensitive in identifying character types in their Camp Groups.
30% Bonding among the Group Leaders themselves so that they have coordination and cohesiveness to leade the camp. This can be through games, or teaching our BS songs with actions, etc.
Hope to see an active discussion kekekekke...
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Our dear Venerable Chuan Guan has a Special!
Haha but the special is by some Mass Comm students.. too bad... hehehe... Credits to Shixiong and Co.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Sunday, September 14, 2008
So disappointed...
This was going round and round in my head for a whole night and day, so I had to get it off my chest... And only in here will perhaps the readers understand...
Yesterday I was chatting with Venerable Bodhi, and she shared with me something very shocking. Apparently the 29th had been looking for a meditation teacher for the basic meditation course for the 30th. Angita had asked me for advice: which teacher to approach and so on. I suggested Venerable Chuan Guan, and it so happened that they did approach him.
Venerable Chuan Guan was the one that shared with Venerable Bodhi what happened. Venerable obviously does not have a car, so he said so. Angita checked with Tiong Han and they decided that they could not provide transport. So Angita emailed Venerable saying that they could not provide transport, so if Venerable really needed it, then they would have to find another teacher instead.
This sounded very terrible to Venerable Bodhi, and also to me. It sounded as if our sincerity in asking for a teacher to teach us depended on whether the Venerable had his own transport. We did not even have the sincerity for providing for a monk's requisites. Furthermore, because the communication was via email, it must have sounded terribly cold and unfriendly to Venerable Chuan Guan.
When I clarified this with Angita on MSN last night, she said they have approached alumni to see if who was free to fetch Venerable. This is not acceptable to me. The practice in the past was to find someone to bus down to the temple, and then cab to and fro with the Venerable. Yes, it was our fault as seniors that we did not pass this protocol down well. But Angita even said to me last night that Venerable should understand that we are students and are very busy! I was so shocked and disappointed by this statement... She said that she had gotten so used to Venerable Chun Nian's mobile nature... But surely it's ridiculous to take that for granted!
Venerable Bodhi gave me the second half of this horrible story: apparently no one confirmed with Venerable Chuan Guan that he would not be the teacher. Angita had told him that she was stepping down and the new Dharma Director would take over this matter. But Eddy and Kyaw had overlooked this in their hurry to look for another teacher, and forgot about him. Venerable waited until recently, when he decided to google for NUSBS to find a contact to get hold of. That's when he found out through the website that Ajahn Kheng from Palelai Temple was the confirmed teacher.
Venerable Bodhi said that she was upset on Venerable Chuan Guan's behalf. I was so embarassed and disgusted also.
Eddy and Jacinta have decided to go down to PKS to apologise personally to Venerable Chuan Guan, also I am sure that he bears no hard feelings at all. But sadly Angita just does not understand what we did wrong. She said that there are some Venerables that we can "clique" with and some that we can't, and that if it was some other Venerable, we would not have had that issue. I was almost angry, and almost in tears to hear such a statement!! The point was not about "clicking" or not!! The point was not which Venerables minded which didn't!! The point was the the decision of the 29th not to provide transport was so disgustingly lacking in sincerity! The point was that we take our teachers for granted!! It should be a baseline that we offer ALL Venerables transport, warm water and towel! Oh my gosh...
The last words I told to her were: that's not the point/ sigh/ i don't think you understand/
And she replied me: yes i dun understand/ and i'm perfectly fine with it/ nite
And this morning I saw the personal message on her MSN nick:
w......r
Whatever.
I am so so disappointed. It totally ruined my day. She was one of the juniors that I felt had so much potential. Even when she burnt out I tried to understand, and lend her a ear for her problems. I had invested my hopes and cares on someone who turned out to be so callous.
Yesterday I was chatting with Venerable Bodhi, and she shared with me something very shocking. Apparently the 29th had been looking for a meditation teacher for the basic meditation course for the 30th. Angita had asked me for advice: which teacher to approach and so on. I suggested Venerable Chuan Guan, and it so happened that they did approach him.
Venerable Chuan Guan was the one that shared with Venerable Bodhi what happened. Venerable obviously does not have a car, so he said so. Angita checked with Tiong Han and they decided that they could not provide transport. So Angita emailed Venerable saying that they could not provide transport, so if Venerable really needed it, then they would have to find another teacher instead.
This sounded very terrible to Venerable Bodhi, and also to me. It sounded as if our sincerity in asking for a teacher to teach us depended on whether the Venerable had his own transport. We did not even have the sincerity for providing for a monk's requisites. Furthermore, because the communication was via email, it must have sounded terribly cold and unfriendly to Venerable Chuan Guan.
When I clarified this with Angita on MSN last night, she said they have approached alumni to see if who was free to fetch Venerable. This is not acceptable to me. The practice in the past was to find someone to bus down to the temple, and then cab to and fro with the Venerable. Yes, it was our fault as seniors that we did not pass this protocol down well. But Angita even said to me last night that Venerable should understand that we are students and are very busy! I was so shocked and disappointed by this statement... She said that she had gotten so used to Venerable Chun Nian's mobile nature... But surely it's ridiculous to take that for granted!
Venerable Bodhi gave me the second half of this horrible story: apparently no one confirmed with Venerable Chuan Guan that he would not be the teacher. Angita had told him that she was stepping down and the new Dharma Director would take over this matter. But Eddy and Kyaw had overlooked this in their hurry to look for another teacher, and forgot about him. Venerable waited until recently, when he decided to google for NUSBS to find a contact to get hold of. That's when he found out through the website that Ajahn Kheng from Palelai Temple was the confirmed teacher.
Venerable Bodhi said that she was upset on Venerable Chuan Guan's behalf. I was so embarassed and disgusted also.
Eddy and Jacinta have decided to go down to PKS to apologise personally to Venerable Chuan Guan, also I am sure that he bears no hard feelings at all. But sadly Angita just does not understand what we did wrong. She said that there are some Venerables that we can "clique" with and some that we can't, and that if it was some other Venerable, we would not have had that issue. I was almost angry, and almost in tears to hear such a statement!! The point was not about "clicking" or not!! The point was not which Venerables minded which didn't!! The point was the the decision of the 29th not to provide transport was so disgustingly lacking in sincerity! The point was that we take our teachers for granted!! It should be a baseline that we offer ALL Venerables transport, warm water and towel! Oh my gosh...
The last words I told to her were: that's not the point/ sigh/ i don't think you understand/
And she replied me: yes i dun understand/ and i'm perfectly fine with it/ nite
And this morning I saw the personal message on her MSN nick:
w......r
Whatever.
I am so so disappointed. It totally ruined my day. She was one of the juniors that I felt had so much potential. Even when she burnt out I tried to understand, and lend her a ear for her problems. I had invested my hopes and cares on someone who turned out to be so callous.
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Training to talk cock: DF 1 year programme
Albert and I met over dinner on Wednesday to talk about the details of the Dharma Friends Workshop that the 30th MC would like to have on 21 Sep Sunday Morning at the end of their MC retreat at Cheng Beng. We also hammered out a rough program to train the DFs holistically.
(How many times have we said that we wanted to do that?? For once, it looks like this time it's going to happen!)
There will be at least 3 DF Worshops, maybe 4 if the 30th MC would like to squeeze in one in Sem 2 mid term break. These will be the outline of the DF Workshops:
DF Workshop 1 - Intro to Facilitating
- Facilitation as a Professional Skill
- What is Facilitation?
- Difference between facilitating and presenting
- Benefits of being able to facilitate
- Changing your mindset about being a facilitator
- Stages in a group discussion
- What are the stages from beginning to rounding up
- What to do at each stage to move on to the next
- Dealing with different Characters
- Eight most commonly seen personality types at DCs
- How to deal with them
Trial DCs
- 3 runs, 2-3 trial faciliators, 6-7 group members, 20 min
- Topic each run will be non-Dharma, close to personal experience
e.g. "Childhood experiences", "Amazing Friendships", "How do I spend my weekends?", etc.
- Non-participants will sit outside the circle, observe, make notes
- 10 min feedback from all, how to improve, learning points
Takeway: "(1) Be confident, (2) go in with a plan!"
Alumni: Hidayat, Albert, Kwek
DF Workshop 2 - Sharpening facilitation skills
- Recap on objectives of facilitations
- Styles of engagement: Different ways of facilitating
- Troubleshooting: what to do with those people and their responses
Trial DCs
Takeaway: Hone basic skills to be an even more effective facilitator
Alumni: Cindy et al.
DF Workshop 3A - Public speaking
Takeaway: Applying facilitation skills to presentations to be an engaging speaker to a small audience
Trial presentations
- Discussive-nature topics
Alumni: Albert et al.
DF Workshop 3B - Public speaking 2
Takeaway: ?Being an engaging speaker in various scenarios, e.g. impromptu, forum panels, etc.?
Another sector that Albert and I thought of exploring is encouraging "Dinner Dharma" among the Dharma Friends and sub-comm with their DDs.
e.g. This week's DC topic is "Calmness amidst the Storm". The actual topic is about concentration and relaxation meditation. In the week(s) before this DC, DFs and sub-comm will have a dinner with DDs and share info that they have read on the net, heard from talks or read from books about Samatha meditation and Anapanasati. or They can combine 2 weeks' worth of DC topics into one dinner topic.
Along the way it would be good to have comments and changes from you guys, and one year later we'll review this again, and try again for another year. Then we should have a steady DF program fit to sell!
Will be meeting Jacinta and Eddy this Friday 5pm to hammer out the year's DC topics and speakers, updates will be up after...
(How many times have we said that we wanted to do that?? For once, it looks like this time it's going to happen!)
There will be at least 3 DF Worshops, maybe 4 if the 30th MC would like to squeeze in one in Sem 2 mid term break. These will be the outline of the DF Workshops:
DF Workshop 1 - Intro to Facilitating
- Facilitation as a Professional Skill
- What is Facilitation?
- Difference between facilitating and presenting
- Benefits of being able to facilitate
- Changing your mindset about being a facilitator
- Stages in a group discussion
- What are the stages from beginning to rounding up
- What to do at each stage to move on to the next
- Dealing with different Characters
- Eight most commonly seen personality types at DCs
- How to deal with them
Trial DCs
- 3 runs, 2-3 trial faciliators, 6-7 group members, 20 min
- Topic each run will be non-Dharma, close to personal experience
e.g. "Childhood experiences", "Amazing Friendships", "How do I spend my weekends?", etc.
- Non-participants will sit outside the circle, observe, make notes
- 10 min feedback from all, how to improve, learning points
Takeway: "(1) Be confident, (2) go in with a plan!"
Alumni: Hidayat, Albert, Kwek
DF Workshop 2 - Sharpening facilitation skills
- Recap on objectives of facilitations
- Styles of engagement: Different ways of facilitating
- Troubleshooting: what to do with those people and their responses
Trial DCs
Takeaway: Hone basic skills to be an even more effective facilitator
Alumni: Cindy et al.
DF Workshop 3A - Public speaking
Takeaway: Applying facilitation skills to presentations to be an engaging speaker to a small audience
Trial presentations
- Discussive-nature topics
Alumni: Albert et al.
DF Workshop 3B - Public speaking 2
Takeaway: ?Being an engaging speaker in various scenarios, e.g. impromptu, forum panels, etc.?
Another sector that Albert and I thought of exploring is encouraging "Dinner Dharma" among the Dharma Friends and sub-comm with their DDs.
e.g. This week's DC topic is "Calmness amidst the Storm". The actual topic is about concentration and relaxation meditation. In the week(s) before this DC, DFs and sub-comm will have a dinner with DDs and share info that they have read on the net, heard from talks or read from books about Samatha meditation and Anapanasati. or They can combine 2 weeks' worth of DC topics into one dinner topic.
Along the way it would be good to have comments and changes from you guys, and one year later we'll review this again, and try again for another year. Then we should have a steady DF program fit to sell!
Will be meeting Jacinta and Eddy this Friday 5pm to hammer out the year's DC topics and speakers, updates will be up after...
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